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Why do I like only guys that don't pay attention to me?

Why do I like only guys that don't pay attention to me? Topic: The distance between us essays
July 23, 2019 / By Jehoshua
Question: All my friends like guys that hit on them first and guys who give them attention. They talk about them all the time and call them all the time. On the other hand I can't like guys that hit on me. All my relationships lasted for about a month or a few weeks and I'm usually the one to end them because i don't feel anything about the guys and I really can't understand my friend's enthusiasm when someone hits on them. For me it's only a temporary satisfaction and then frustration and trouble. I only liked 2 guys in my life and they both weren't paying attention to me. I liked them because they were interesting/ mysterious/ I liked their essays/ they had a deep gaze but I don't think I would like them if there was no distance between us. Is there something wrong with me?
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Gedalia Gedalia | 10 days ago
I have the impression that you're seeking depth...as in more than high school jocks hitting on cheerleaders type scenarios. It's simply not you. I applaud you for acknowledging what's true to you. Be patient and keep saying no to those guys. If your friends are kind and understand you, they won't start stating that you are a lesbian behind your back. If they do, move on to other people. Are you almost in college?
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Gedalia Originally Answered: Guys don't pay attention to me. Is it because of the way I look?
TD, I don't know if you are just fishing or what, but in case you are serious, you are quite an attractive young woman. Beauty by itself will get you squat when the shiny wears off, so don't get the big-head because you are beautiful, but don't worry about your looks. Not a problem. If you want guys to notice you, be comfortable with yourself. Many women are not that friendly, and have guys crawling all over them. I'm sure this is mysterious to you, because it is to most people. The key is, it's not about friendly. It should be, but it's about sexuality and confidence. That doesn't mean you should go out and get promiscuous, and it doesn't mean you should stop wearing undies, or be overly arrogant. It simply means that you are very comfortable with your self. If you are, you will walk differently, move differently, have different postures, different tones of voice, and you will give off a slight air of sensuality. Guys dig this. You should still be yourself and be sincere, but the differences will give off very subtle signals that guys are extremely aware of. Women are too for that matter. It can be as subtle as simply standing up straighter or flipping your hair occasionally. Or not standing too close to your friend because you are nervous. Sometimes it's about what you don't do instead of what you do, do. (I try to avoid putting do and do together in a sentence, but it was unavoidable) Run an experiment tomorrow. I don't even know how you normally present yourself, but regardless, do this: Walk around with your arms at your side, swing them if it feels natural. Keep your head up, and smile and make eye contact with as many guys as you can, even if they don't smile back. Observe their reactions and mood. The next day - don't smile, don't meet their eyes immediately, and keep your arms crossed. Observe their reactions and mood. The difference will be so striking that it will shock you. Good luck Kevin
Gedalia Originally Answered: Guys don't pay attention to me. Is it because of the way I look?
Maybe you make guys nervous with your looks - in a good way. But it's probably about confidence. Try not to get too worried about it.
Gedalia Originally Answered: Guys don't pay attention to me. Is it because of the way I look?
You look fine. It's never about the way you look but how you act. If you are passionate about what you love, live life to the fullest, enjoy every day, be the best person you can be, you'll be noticed.

Dick Dick
Do not think too much. Just be what you are and follow your heart. You will surely find someone who likes you as much as you like him. Just be patient.
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Dick Originally Answered: ATTENTION! ATTENTION! I'm 13, and wrote these. What do you think of my lyrics? (:?
Yeah thats really good.I like the lyrics because they actually mean something unlike some other people who think they can write a song but have no idea how lol.I think it will be awesome with music!Keep going youv'e got something going for you!
Dick Originally Answered: ATTENTION! ATTENTION! I'm 13, and wrote these. What do you think of my lyrics? (:?
This is proper!! Promise me you will keep writing and study the relevent courses needed to pursue a career in writing lyrics/poems.Well done

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