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This is hell. my mom again?

This is hell. my mom again? Topic: Listen to this while doing homework at home
July 16, 2019 / By Dara
Question: As a child, I suffered a lot because of my mother’s physical and emotional abuse. When I turned 13 I hated her and wanted to leave home as soon as I could. During my teen years, my mom made my life hell. Also I have a younger sister who also made my life miserable by telling me how much I suck in life compared to her popular life. When I was 17 I listened to people’s suggestion of trying to understand that my mom wanted the best for me and that’s why she did whatever she did. Our relationship started to get better but it was mostly because of me trying to not to talk back because she kept insulting me “unintentionally” and threating me like crap and then saying sorry after she made me feel like ****. When I was 18 my mom read my diary and found out that I had a boyfriend, who I was having sex with and that we were having problems in our relationship because he pressured me to have sex. In that time I was planning to break up with him but I didn’t want to because he was the first guy with whom I lost my virginity so I was trying my best to keep our relationship longer. She told this to my dad and also she told him that he was an illegal Mexican. My dad beat me when I came home and yelled so many insulting things to my ex that I cried and when he(my ex) left I ran away and the cops came because our neighbors called them. It was supper embarrassing; I had to run without shoes and with my pajamas outside and hide in somebody’s house, even my friends knew about what happened and they started treating me differently and my friends parents didn’t want them to hang out with me anymore. I had the best relationship with my dad until this happened, I couldn’t trust him the same way after that. Four months later, I transferred from the university that I was to a new one where I could get housing. The purpose of this was to not live with my parents anymore. This has been the best decision ever; it felt just like coming out of hell. I wasn’t in prison anymore! While being in the new university, I’ve been enjoying everything in life that was denied to me during so many years. The only problem is that my mom keeps calling my every day to check if I’m at home; mostly every weekend starting on Fridays. When I come home, I find like 12 missing calls every weekend and voice messages of her asking where I am. Also she has been telling my dad to do the same so I get the calls in my mobile too from him. And every time she calls me she is telling me not to go to parties and to go to church instead. I hate this situation, IT IS VERY STRESSING, I can’t concentrate doing my homework because I keep thinking of the many calls I’ve gotten from her and the way she acts stresses me a lot. I don’t want her to call me. I’m an adult know, I know what I do now .It’s my life. I just want her to leave me alone. What should I do???
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Brady Brady | 6 days ago
Delete the messages without listening to them. If they're paying for your college, books, housing, food, transportation, healthcare and phone, suck it up.
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Brady Originally Answered: Do you think this is the ultimate truth about hell? Man made hell in his image, this is the truth?
You are either ignorant or willfully deceptive. I hope it is the former. "Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.' "They also will answer, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?' "He will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.' "Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life." Mathew 25:41-46
Brady Originally Answered: Do you think this is the ultimate truth about hell? Man made hell in his image, this is the truth?
No, this isn't true by the property of transitivity. Man is made in the image of God, so if hell was made in the image of man, then it was made in the image of God. God and hell are completely separate from one another. So therefore hell could not have been made in the image of man. I don't have the will to base these statements on specific Scriptural passages, but I will simply affirm that I hold these truths to be Biblically self-evident. P.S. - Your understanding of the subject matter seems impressive. P.S.S. - I have developed doubts about my answer. I may be the undisputed King of Logic and Reason (true dat) but I admit that I may have been duped by this question. I just remembered this bad *** line I heard in a rap song: "Sometimes I wonder if I'm blessed because I'm still here / And I wonder, in Heaven, if sin is different / because in hell the blood spills here" - Z-Ro And some people say rap music isn't music... If it ain't music, it's freakin' philosophy, which is 100 times more complicated than music! P.S.S.S. - "But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars—their place will be in the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death." (Rev. 21:8) i.e., our bodies may die, but our souls are immortal. (Christianity 101)
Brady Originally Answered: Do you think this is the ultimate truth about hell? Man made hell in his image, this is the truth?
Hell is the state of definitive self exclusion from communion with God, reserved for those who refuse, by their own free choice, to believe and be converted from sin, even to the end of their lives. There is no lake of fire. What Bible do you use? All Bibles are full of errors except the Canon of Scripture.

Albertine Albertine
Maybe you should just tell her how you feel.... But choose your words carefully so you don't her feelings..... Try to think how she feels about everything... She has feelings too.... O. o
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Albertine Originally Answered: Will you go to hell if?
Listen dearheart, the heavenly father knows the state of the economy, He knows that you dont have intentional debt. He also forgives debt. when you say the Lord's Prayer, you ask him to forgive your debts. Now intentionally making debt knowing you are not going to repay is wrong. It is a good practice as a christian to avoid debt if at all possible, credit cards, etc because it is usuary, a vicious cycle. But in todays world, you cannot fare without credit so having one card is good to use in emergencies. This too shall pass dearheart, call your creditors and tell them that you are not able to make the regularly scheduled payments, but will send what you can. do not let them pin you down to a set amount, tell them about your situation and write down in a letter what you can send explaining your situation, ask if there is a settlement amount that you can pay off. The would rather get something than nothing,. He is the Lord, and yes, he understands.
Albertine Originally Answered: Will you go to hell if?
No, you will be going to hell, if you don't accept Jesus in your life as your personal Savior and Lord, repent of the sins, and live dead. (in other words, live not for self but for Christ whom strengthen you in all areas. Then God will use you. Not like people, like they only used for their gain only, but God will use for His gain and your. Since you are his child and a servant/sibling of Christ, then you will not lack anything in this life, since He will provide all of your needs and He won't let you failure. Failure and bad debt doesn't exist in His kingdom, so it don't exist in you, since Christ is in you and you're part of His kingdom on Earth. Besides, if you are a follower of God, then you will not have bad debt, period. Prays that be of assistance.

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