Originally Answered: ?how do I talk to him?
Since you didn't close the question I answered earlier, I will help you again. If you want to talk to him, start by acting confident. Sociology studies show that people who act confident are more confident. Also another reason to talk to him is if you don't, he probably won't either since both of you are shy and you will end up regretting it like I did. Before you start the day when you will talk to him, look your best. Even though it sounds weird, compliment yourself in the mirror. Practice this daily because it is PROVEN to make you more confident. I AM SURE that he likes you, because I'm a guy who acted exactly like that before, and he is probably just as nervous as you. Before you talk to him, remember the tips for confidence, and go up to him. Say "hey" without even thinking before you act, and in your own mind, pretend like it was an accident even though it wasn't, so you will be able to say hey. Talk to him about class or ask him a question about class or homework or something. Then get to know his name and ask about his favorite movie/color/etc... (This is what girls say to me when they like me and want to talk to me) He will pick up on this and he will know you like him. If he doesn't ask you out right there, then get his number and text/facebook him constantly (not too much, you don't want to look too obsessed) until he does, and he will because I am sure he likes you. Guys like shy girls, so don't worry. It will be better because both of you are shy and you will get along well. I know how tough it is to be shy trying to talk to someone you like... After all the positive thinking, I am very outgoing and I can get tons of girls! If you find that you absolutely can't do what I just said, then start the conversation on facebook. Type "hey" to him and 'accidentally' press the enter key and do the same thing pretty much and end the conversation with "see you in class :)" or something like that and then you can continue talking to him in class. Also when you are thinking to yourself or about to talk to him on facebook, find a 'confidence' song. Personally, mine is Trapt - Headstrong, but i don't know if you like alternative rock music or not. Also, try to talk to him sooner rather than later, I have made this mistake too many times with girls, and guys LOVE IT when girls make the first move! I promise this will work out, and if it does, then you have to promise to select my answers as best answers because I like helping people, and I have good advice that works, but no one listens... If you need any more help, then email me at [email protected]
, I am currently helping a few people with their problems and I can help you through this, and I guarantee you this guy you like is yours! ;)
To sum it up:
1. Look your best that day, build confidence, and find a song.
2. Go to class and talk to him (or on facebook if you absolutely can't and have tried in real life too many times)
3. Say "hey" to him 'accidentally' and pick up the conversation from there.
4. Ask him questions about class, then about personal stuff like favorites, then get his number
5. Text/facebook until he asks you out.
6. You both can take it from there because both of you are shy and this will work out!